Having anal sex is like having large hard stools,
only in reverse. It also lasts longer than a bowel movement, and may
eventually result in greater carnage: enlarged internal hemorrhoids, anal
fissures, ulcers, fistulas, nerve damage, rectocele, the weakness of
anal sphincters, chronic pain, fecal incontinence, and, of course,
Anal sex causes constipation for the exact same
reasons that large stools cause it — the diameter of even a small erect
penis is as large or larger than the maximum aperture of the anal canal.
And if the penis is large and long, it also damages the rectum, which is
And lubrication isn‘t much of a help, because it isn‘t
just the friction that does the carnage, but the pressure inside the
anal canal that affects anal sphincters, enlarges internal hemorrhoids,
tears apart the delicate lining, and damages or desensitizes the
super-sensitive nerve endings of the anal plexus.
In turn, these factors cause pain during defecation and
result in an incomplete emptying of the bowels. This, in turn, enlarges
stools even more, and causes even more pain, and often bleeding. From
this point on, these problems turn into a pain in the ‘ass,‘ literally…
There is really no good way to address this situation
except to abstain from anal sex. However, if constipation is already
your main concern, please visit this page to address this complication.
What should you do and what can you do to remedy
anorectal damage caused by anal sex?
Well, first consider switching to a less
destructive form of sexual intercourse. If you still prefer it that
way, at least find a partner with as small a penis as possible, though
it isn‘t going to help much, because in this situation even a large
finger will eventually cause damage;
Obviously, you can always have plastic surgery done to
remove scar tissue and enlarged hemorrhoidal pads. But the surgery isn‘t
going to solve the problem with constipation, because mending the anus
with a lancet usually kills anorectal sensitivity altogether, so you no
longer experience the urge to move your bowels naturally. Even worse,
you may lose your ability to control your anal sphincters and end up
wearing pampers for the rest of your life!
To learn how to make stools small, soft, and regular, and
to enjoy reasonable
health and quality of life regardless of your adventuresome sex life,
start reading from here:
If you can‘t say ‘no‘ to your partner forcefully
enough, just show him the video above and these illustrations:
The final frontier between you and the toilet bowl.
If he still insists on having anal sex,
measure up his implement, get a cucumber or carrot of a similar size and
shape, put a condom on, and ask him to take it first. Maybe that will
reduce his eagerness to cause you similar harm.